Just today one of my guy friends asked me via text:
How was your Valentines Day?
How was your Valentines Day?
Me: Valentines Day was alright! How about you
Him: I saw a couple girls cry. Made me kind of happy not being in a relationship.
Me: Oh, God! That was me two or three weeks ago. I want a relationship, but definitely not a dysfunctional one. I’ll take nothing over dysfunctional.
Him: Yeah, totally agree.
Why is it that girls (and guys too) put themselves in these ridiculous relationships? I can honestly say I would much rather be alone (but with my friends, of course) than be with someone who doesn’t appreciate me. [Example: when a guy you are “dating” makes out with another girl in front of you.] There is nothing “fun” about dysfunctional. I used to not mind a little dysfunction, but I am getting way to old to deal with arguments (over petty things), immaturity and tears. There has to be someone out there who appreciates me, right? RIGHT?
I hope so because I am getting pretty lonely all by myself. It isn’t even that I NEED a guy, but I really want to find the “one.” I’m ready.
Wishful Thinking...
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